Robert Aerts, LMFT
Practical, narrative-informed therapy for everyday struggles
Details
| Name | Robert Aerts |
|---|---|
| Credentials | LMFT |
| Based in | California |
| Licensed in | California |
| Session format | Online |
| Languages | English |
| Years in practice | 8 |
About Robert
Robert Aerts is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. He has eight years of clinical experience and more than 30 years working in human services. He offers straightforward, honest conversation to help people manage stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship or intimacy concerns.
Robert adapts his approach to what a person brings to sessions. He commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy to help people reframe painful stories, test new behaviors, and set achievable goals.
Background and approach
Sessions focus on practical steps and clearer thinking rather than jargon or long lectures. He is LGBTQ friendly and understands the stigma some people face. That background guides how he talks about identity, relationships, and self-esteem in ways that feel respectful and real.
He also works with concerns such as parenting strain, anger, trauma and abuse, ADHD, and life transitions. Robert provides individual therapy and keeps communication direct. If an issue falls outside his scope, he will recommend other resources or supports that may be a better fit.
People can expect a candid, goal-oriented working style and help shaping next steps. Sessions are offered in English and delivered through multiple online formats. Robert aims to help people find practical tools they can use between sessions to handle daily stress and move toward clearer, more manageable goals.
What this therapist works with
His listing names Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Parenting issues among the things Robert works with, alongside the areas below.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Anger management
- Coping with life changes
- ADHD
Approaches listed
- Narrative Therapy: Named in his listing among his approaches.
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Listed by Robert among the ways he works.
- Solution-Focused Therapy: Listed by Robert among the ways he works.
- Training stated: This directory copies the approaches a therapist names and does not check training records. Ask Robert directly how much of the work is narrative and what a session usually looks like.
Narrative Therapy in this listing
Narrative Therapy appears in this therapist's own list of approaches. That tells you it is part of how he works. It does not tell you how much of a session it shapes, and this directory does not check or rate training.
If a narrative approach is what you are looking for, it is worth asking Robert directly how he uses it and what a session usually looks like.
Online session options
Approaches that translate well to online therapy
Robert commonly uses Narrative Therapy to help people examine and rewrite the stories they tell about themselves and their relationships, which can reduce shame and open up new possibilities. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to identify unhelpful thoughts and test small behavior changes that often ease anxiety and low mood. Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on concrete goals and the steps that lead to quick, practical improvements.Finding the right approach is part of the work. Robert will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals, preferences, and daily life. That teamwork helps shape a plan that combines short-term tools and longer-term changes based on how a person responds in sessions.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video calls are good for longer weekly sessions and visual connection. Phone sessions can be a lower-bandwidth option or fit into a break at work. Live chat and text messaging allow brief check-ins, quick problem-solving, and continued support between longer sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule and keep momentum between appointments.
Common questions about this listing
What kinds of concerns does Robert help with?
He works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, self-esteem, parenting strain, trauma and abuse, anger, ADHD, and coping with life changes.
What is his therapeutic style like?
He uses clear, direct communication and draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy to set goals and change unhelpful patterns.
How much experience does he have?
Robert holds a master’s in counseling psychology and has eight years of clinical experience in the mental health field along with over 30 years in human services.
Where is he located and what are his credentials?
He is based in California and is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, listed as LMFT.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English. He is not accepting international clients.
What session formats does he offer?
He provides therapy via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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