Evelyn Pappoe, LMFT
Compassionate therapist for life transitions
Details
| Name | Evelyn Pappoe |
|---|---|
| Credentials | LMFT |
| Based in | New Jersey |
| Licensed in | New York, New Jersey |
| Session format | Online |
| Languages | English, Spanish |
| Years in practice | 14 |
About Evelyn
Evelyn Pappoe is a bilingual Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who helps people cope with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, self-esteem struggles, and major life changes. She works in English and Spanish and brings 14 years of clinical experience to her practice in New Jersey. She grew up in the Bronx in an immigrant, blended family.
Early life experiences including teen parenthood and her parents' divorce shaped her interest in mental health.
Background and approach
That background informs how she listens and the examples she draws on in sessions. In sessions she uses practical conversation to identify patterns that cause pain. She helps people notice stories they tell about themselves and then try new ways of thinking and relating.
She often mixes approaches to match what someone needs in the moment. Her toolkit includes Narrative Therapy, which invites people to reframe the stories they live by, and Client-Centered Therapy, which focuses on being heard and understood. She also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy to address thoughts and relationship patterns.
People come for help with abandonment, caregiving stress, blended family issues, fertility and pregnancy loss, aging concerns, cancer-related stress, and communication or commitment difficulties. She frames therapy as a place to work through the past, learn new coping skills, and prepare for life’s next chapter.
What this therapist works with
Her listing names Stress, Anxiety, Relationship issues, Grief among the things Evelyn works with, alongside the areas below.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches listed
- Narrative Therapy: Named in her listing among her approaches.
- Client-Centered Therapy: Listed by Evelyn among the ways she works.
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Listed by Evelyn among the ways she works.
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT): Listed by Evelyn among the ways she works.
- Existential Therapy: Listed by Evelyn among the ways she works.
- Motivational Interviewing: Listed by Evelyn among the ways she works.
- Solution-Focused Therapy: Listed by Evelyn among the ways she works.
- Trauma-Focused Therapy: Listed by Evelyn among the ways she works.
- Training stated: This directory copies the approaches a therapist names and does not check training records. Ask Evelyn directly how much of the work is narrative and what a session usually looks like.
Narrative Therapy in this listing
Narrative Therapy appears in this therapist's own list of approaches. That tells you it is part of how she works. It does not tell you how much of a session it shapes, and this directory does not check or rate training.
If a narrative approach is what you are looking for, it is worth asking Evelyn directly how she uses it and what a session usually looks like.
Online session options
How Evelyn’s approaches work online
Therapy here often uses Narrative Therapy to help people examine the stories they tell about themselves and consider different, more helpful narratives. That approach can be useful for grief, identity questions, and life transitions. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes being heard and respected; sessions focus on listening and reflecting so people feel understood before making changes.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) targets specific thoughts and behaviors that increase anxiety or get in the way of daily life. CBT techniques online can include setting small goals, tracking thoughts, and practicing new skills between sessions. Evelyn tailors these methods together with each person, so the mix fits their goals and pace in a collaborative way.
Online options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is good for face-to-face conversation and emotional work. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier during a busy day. Chat or messaging can work well for short check-ins, quick tools, or people who prefer typing. These formats make scheduling more flexible and help therapy fit into routines like work, caregiving, or travel.
Common questions about this listing
What issues does this therapist support?
Evelyn works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, low self-esteem, and major life changes. Additional focuses include abandonment, caregiving stress, fertility concerns, cancer-related stress, and blended family challenges.
How would you describe her therapy style?
She uses a conversational, practical style that helps people notice unhelpful patterns and try new responses. Sessions often blend listening with exercises that address thoughts and relationship dynamics.
What experience does she have?
She brings 14 years of clinical experience and draws on personal experience growing up in an immigrant, blended family to inform her work with clients.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in New York and New Jersey and practices from New Jersey.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be done by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and communication preferences.
How is payment handled and what does it cost?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability and sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.
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